Today I am talking to a person who is closed minded. I want to tell
something very important, and beneficial for him, but he is not receptive. He
has lost in his belief systems. He is not able to see the other side.
What should I do to make him understand?
I am thinking deep inside, "Is there any way to make him understand? Or should I leave the effort?"
The right answer is, HARMONY.
Harmony means "Haar + Maani". Yes it really works. It means not to fight but to accept everything, let’s loose the topic for a moment whether you are right. I need to understand that he is also not wrong from his side, but he is not able to see the other side due to the fog of strong belief systems. When I start thinking this way, this energy of acceptance will give the other person a spark, and enlightenment, which can open the closed doors of his mind. He will certainly understand, when I am in Harmony with him. I just need to wait for the right time, when he will be in receptive condition.
Sometimes I may lose in the words, but in real I win. Also the action, always speaks louder than words. It gives me an idea that if I want to give some message to my dear ones, or anyone, there is no need to shout loud or tell again and again, but I need to implement that thing in my own life. Because my life will be a message to others itself.
Also we know iron molds iron, but we need to understand that the cold iron molds the hot! Like this we need to always stay cool, and when it seems that now it’s ready to strike, when they want to hear the other side, we can put our thoughts effectively, within a few words.
Harmony has a great importance in life. The same case applies to all situations in life. Our state of Harmony will make our own life easy. The first thing Harmony tells us to kill our ego. When I understand that there is very less gap between self-esteem and ego, then only I can change my ego into self-esteem. Harmony means to understand that there is no benefit in striking your head to the wall. It means we should not waste our time and energy in useless matters. If I stay in high self-respect then I will never feel low if someone insults me for no reason.
I need to understand that harmony in my thoughts, words and actions can take me to win the battle of life. You may wonder if I accept everything in life, like defeat, how would I achieve the high goals! But you need to understand that only after accepting the defeat, I can again prepare for my goal with more enthusiasm.
So save your energy, save your time, because both are very precious. Stay in Harmony and win every battle which comes in life.
:)
What should I do to make him understand?
I am thinking deep inside, "Is there any way to make him understand? Or should I leave the effort?"
The right answer is, HARMONY.
Harmony means "Haar + Maani". Yes it really works. It means not to fight but to accept everything, let’s loose the topic for a moment whether you are right. I need to understand that he is also not wrong from his side, but he is not able to see the other side due to the fog of strong belief systems. When I start thinking this way, this energy of acceptance will give the other person a spark, and enlightenment, which can open the closed doors of his mind. He will certainly understand, when I am in Harmony with him. I just need to wait for the right time, when he will be in receptive condition.
Sometimes I may lose in the words, but in real I win. Also the action, always speaks louder than words. It gives me an idea that if I want to give some message to my dear ones, or anyone, there is no need to shout loud or tell again and again, but I need to implement that thing in my own life. Because my life will be a message to others itself.
Also we know iron molds iron, but we need to understand that the cold iron molds the hot! Like this we need to always stay cool, and when it seems that now it’s ready to strike, when they want to hear the other side, we can put our thoughts effectively, within a few words.
Harmony has a great importance in life. The same case applies to all situations in life. Our state of Harmony will make our own life easy. The first thing Harmony tells us to kill our ego. When I understand that there is very less gap between self-esteem and ego, then only I can change my ego into self-esteem. Harmony means to understand that there is no benefit in striking your head to the wall. It means we should not waste our time and energy in useless matters. If I stay in high self-respect then I will never feel low if someone insults me for no reason.
I need to understand that harmony in my thoughts, words and actions can take me to win the battle of life. You may wonder if I accept everything in life, like defeat, how would I achieve the high goals! But you need to understand that only after accepting the defeat, I can again prepare for my goal with more enthusiasm.
So save your energy, save your time, because both are very precious. Stay in Harmony and win every battle which comes in life.
:)
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